A dent in the heart!

A bad day…. or may be the worst day so far.  I just want all of you to  yell at me. 

Cars were never facinating to me, although, i forcibly became member of freaky car fan’s club.  I have no brother or a car frenzy father, who could have probably ignited interest in me about cars.  Whatever i knew till my marrige, was  the four wheels and a metal body with seats and a very very status oriented and fun to drive thing. 

Things changed, and my hubby dear looked like a president of that car fan’s club.  To my amusement, he could name all the cars on the tracks(now i know all kids do that, but i wasn’t aware then).  Still i was always away from this  kinky business.  Gently and unknowingly, i was one of them, in span of three years. 

Things changed better,  I got a license in qatar by passing the first test which was a  uphill battle.  The next day, to much of my excitement, i could drive a brand new Honda Civic from the showroom all by myself, upto the porch.  The car was bought with lots and loads of dicussions over  a month, after we lost our astra to a freaky but a terrible accident.  The experience of driving a new showroom car in a different country to me was something ultimate so far.   I was in the air, though, i was drenched in sweat for that five minutes drive.  The dream was, one day just zip across the strees of Doha, at highest speed possible wearing a black gorgles and a black dress.  Nothing of that sort hapnd, apart from escaping few hair line accidents. 

Then comes, our home land,wild and carefree, careless and disobidient.  I was a proud wife to my hsuband when i took a Tata Safari for a  test drive.  We even thought to go for that.  Some how Ford Fiesta captured us.  We closed the deal spending half a day at  Cauvery Ford. My husband was so so cautious and a careful driver, is cautious with all the things that happens on the world which invloves him.  He takes HIS OWN time in deciding things.  Its a virtue by itself and mistakes will be minimal. 

Some how the struggle we went through at Bangalore over months, in conveyance, fighting and yelling at autos, just showed me the importance of owning a vehicle.  Fiesta is more like a member to our family than a car that is just paked outside.  My husband very soon got good hands on the wheel, who was more worried of the fact that he is not used to manual car with wrong side driving.  He had no alternative other than driving and he took few classes,   slowly but steadily took off to be a meticulous driver i would say.  I am so happy for him.

The story begins now.  I am too jittery, i donno what not i am.  May be i am far more careless sort.  Whatever i am, but i loved this little one, who took us around during bad traffics, awful weather and long drives.  Fiesta just listens to you like your cudley pup or a obidient kid.  The shortest distance this car travelled is dropping my daughter to her school which close to the house, with worst driver like me, it got bruised twice near the front wheel.  I decided not touch, but there was nothing like DONT TOUCH from the owner of the car, i some how sorted the issues between me and mind and started off again.  But today was end of one fateful day.  The car was asked to park at the basement and hight of misguidance from me, made a big dent near the rear door of the car. The dent i just dont forget, i could see that even now when i close my eyes.  Its been too bad for me too take it.  I mean most of you would have gone through that experience .. how could one imagine a big dent of about 5 inches long 1 inch deep, on a three months old Platinum color Fiesta looks like? BAD BAD BAD…. a bad day….

16 Responses to “A dent in the heart!”

  1. dhanya Says:

    Im very new to the blog… Let me be frank; I copied all of the blog links from annita and thought of reading them in lento….got stuck when i read about cars..thought that i have entered into wrong site…. Still eyes went through…Good narration , though feeling bad about the vehicle!

    Aparna: Hi Dhanya, basically its a cookin blog. I never wanted to post something like that.. but it was out of frustration.

  2. Chandrika Says:

    Tae heart, Aparna….I know how bad it feels…Yet, it’s all part of life…

  3. Chandrika Says:

    Oh Sorry..There was a typo…It is ‘Take heart’…

  4. outofthegarden Says:

    Oh Aparna… I am so sorry! Try not to feel too badly… as Chandrika says, part of life… not easy, but this too shall pass :)

    Hugs
    Linda

    Aparna : Hi Linda.. nice to hear from you.. .bad feeling is gone!

  5. Bhargavi Says:

    Oh Sorry Aparna! We do understand how bad it feels.
    Hey ur narration is eyecatching !!
    Good day!

  6. sumitha Says:

    Its very sad Aparna but thank God the dent is only on a car,right!

    Aparna: Thts right Sumi.

  7. sumitha Says:

    Happy Vishu Aparna!

  8. Vanishree Says:

    Hi,
    I like your blog very much.
    If you are interested in link exchange than please leave a comment on http://vanishreerajamarthandan.blogspot.com/
    Happy Blogging :)

  9. Karl Says:

    große Informationen, Dank.

    Karl

  10. Roopa Says:

    first time at your blog! lovely blog :) sorry about the dent !

  11. lathanarasimhan Says:

    Oh bangalore roads are scary! I just gave up driving. It is too much tension!

  12. Mansi Says:

    Happens…its all a process of learning..If its any consolation, I’ve been really bad with cars than anyone here…I can’t even tell you how:)

    Something’s are best learnt the hard way! let it go…don’t let it worry you so much girl!

  13. Archana Says:

    How are you doing Aparna ?

    aparna: Hi Archana, i cant believe that i am still in dent, i am fine.. some how not making up time to do justice to this blog..still thanks for keeping in touch.

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  15. Mugger Says:

    Somehow i missed the point. Probably lost in translation :) Anyway … nice blog to visit.

    cheers, Mugger

  16. Shanti Peace Says:

    I will certainly try your laddoo recipe. So far it looks like the lowest calorie one I have found on the internet.

    Good for you for moving back to India. I have met so many people now in my life who have done the same thing. From all over the world. Of course, everyone is happy. India is such a wonderful, beautiful country. Oh I can not wait to return myself.

    Namaste

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